Approach your entire day the same way an athlete approaches a competition. Desire. Desire brings us closer to others we are interested in. It directs our thoughts daily towards what we want. It’s the foundation for the goals we set and thus the parameters of our lives. Setting your goals out long term is good, but if you lack the intentions in the present moment that support them you won’t be nearly as successful in reaching them. Too often we submit ourselves to the day with

Our best features aren't always physical. It’s easy to write off the gay community’s “obsession” with body image as just one of those things we’ve picked up from media or chalk it up to our innate knack for style. But our preferences have some real roots in science that can be helpful to keep in mind in regards to self-image. This morning I Googled images of Henry Cavill. Not research for this article, but because his face came up in an ad somewhere and I forgot how damn good